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It's a fire drill at the Children's Home. The alarm is sounded and children start pouring out of the home, out under the Tree of Life. Some of the older children grab the little ones and lead them out. It's all rehearsed, of course, but some children are teary eyed and panicky. Some make light of the drill, trying to cheer up the frightened kids. Six-year-old Ton scoops up J, a younger boy, in his arms and hurries to the exit. On the way, he trips and falls. J starts to wail, and Ton begins to comfort him, but soon follows suit. They carry on with the uproar until a houseparent leads them out into the afternoon sunshine.
Later, Ton sheepishly says that he tried to be brave but got scared when he fell down because he remembered being in a real fire, back before CCFT. Young as he is, Ton remembers plenty of things - several of them unpleasant. He acts like an old soul; a child who's gone through too much, so early.
During his first year in CCFT, Ton was unpredictable. Serious, neat, and rule-abiding, heaven help the sibling or house parent who crossed him. He would bide his time quietly, but lash out furiously when goaded to a fight. At school, he would keep to himself, staying near the bottom rung of the class because he wasn't able to keep up with some of his classmates who were already reading.
First grade was a change, though, when he began to open up to therapist Viviene Francisco, drawing pictures of his fears and worries and describing how he would come to blows with people because they reminded him of the fighting in his family before CCFT. He also began attending reading tutorials and discovered he loved books. His February house parent, Nanay Cel Salalima, said she was so proud of how Ton would now read aloud on his bunk bed and pester her about unfamiliar words and spellings.
By the Third Grading Period of CCFT Coron International School, Music teacher Jordan Ormido described Ton as "a revelation". Ton rose up to third from eighth in the class ranking and took home the Music Smart Award. At the Children's Home in January 2009, he became one of the Top Ten Children, and told his Nanay Cel: "Nanay, I didn't know it felt this good to behave well."
It all boils down to this: family love. Nanay Cel said the trick to it was loving her "sons" like they were her own blood. "You have to be consistent, fair, and kind. Shouting orders won't do anything; they will only be reminded of their former, harsh life. Words aren't the key; you have to show them that things are different now, that things are better here."
Love, incidentally, is also the name of Ton's CCFT family. Coincidence? We think not